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Take a Moment to Find Ease

Calming the Mind

Mindfulness can be challenging at times, but it can also be very simple. When we practice mindfulness meditation, there are two main aspects within our practice: stopping (pausing) and observing (looking deeply). When we stop, we’re practicing concentration. When we’re observing, we’re practicing insight. Concentrating our mind is as simple as stopping it from bouncing around from one thing to the next. We concentrate our thought process on just one thing at a time, and this is mindfulness. When we can truly be with one thing at a time, we’re able to observe it more clearly and deeply than when our attention is divided. In order to look deeply into anything, we have to stop and concentrate. 

This is why mindfulness is made of both stopping and observing, because both conditions become one when we practice. The more we practice concentrating, the more profoundly we can observe. The deeper our insights, the stronger our ability to examine things (and ourselves) becomes.
Stopping to collect our mind allows us to see more clearly.
When we’re observing, our mind naturally becomes more still. 
Meditation is really that simple. We don’t need to overcomplicate our practice when our intention is to quiet and calm the mind.

Meditation for Stopping and Looking Deeply

This mediation quiets internal noise and helps us regain a sense of control. Get into a calm state by focusing on your breath.
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Breathing in, I am aware that I am breathing in
Breathing out, I am aware that I am breathing out
In - Out


Breathing in, my breath goes deep
Breathing out, my breath goes slow
Deep - 
Slow

Breathing in, I calm my body
Breathing out, I feel at ease
Calm - Ease


Breathing in, I smile
Breathing out, I release all tension
Smile - Release

Breathing in, I relax my mind
Breathing out, I smile to my relaxed mind
​Relax - Smile to Relaxed Mind

Breathing in, I quiet my mind and let go of thoughts, worries, and judgements
Breathing out, I smile to my quiet mind
Release - Smile 
to Quiet Mind
Breathing in, I see myself in this moment, sitting quietly, doing nothing
Breathing out, my mind is free
I See Myself - Free


Breathing in, I feel light
​
Breathing out, I feel free
Light - Free


​Breathing in, I am in touch with the emptiness of my mind
Breathing out, I smile to my empty mind
Emptiness - Smile 
to Empty Mind

Breathing in, I see my fear ​about the future
Breathing out, I let it go
Fear - Let Go


Breathing in, I see my worries, my irritation, my concerns, my busy thoughts

Breathing out, I let them go
Concern - Let Go


Breathing in, I am enjoying this 
present moment
Breathing out, I know this is a wonderful moment
Breathing in, I am grateful for this present moment
Breathing out, I see this wonderful moment
Present Moment - ​Wonderful Moment
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When we allow ourselves the time to stop, we give our hard-working body time to rest. While our body is calm and sitting peacefully, our mind has the opportunity to find ease, as well.  "Stopping" is what we do when we pause, slow down, or take a moment away from our daily demands in order to check in with ourselves. The practice of stopping is an act of love we can do for ourselves to refresh our emotions and energy. It's also an act of love towards other people, because we become more present and available once we are free from our stressed, repetitive, or unskillful thoughts and feelings.
Deepen Your Understanding: If we train ourselves to be able to slow down and breathe when we're facing difficult situations, we'll reduce overwhelmed, frustrated, and negative feelings.
Mindfulness Exercise: S.T.O.P.

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    • Healthy Eating Tips
    • Plant Based Eating
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    • Day of Rest
    • No Stress at Dinner
  • Practice
    • 5-4-3-2-1 Meditation
    • Breathing Patterns
    • Doing vs Being
    • Earth Meditation
    • Energizing Meditation
    • Hand on Heart Meditation
    • Ice Cube Meditation
    • I Like Meditation
    • Inner Outer Meditation
    • Foot Awareness Meditation
    • Loving-Kindness
    • Mindful Breathing
    • Mindful 1 Minute
    • Mindful Chores
    • Mindful Driving
    • Mindful Eyes
    • Mindful Grounding
    • Mindful Object
    • Mindful Seeds
    • Mindful Tea
    • Mindful Walking
    • Mindful Water
    • Paintbrush Meditation
    • Take Refuge
    • Telephone Meditation
    • Sangha Meditation
    • Side to Side Thought Observation
    • Spider Meditation
    • STOP
    • Stopping + Looking Meditation
    • Where Are You Now?
    • Written Thought Record
  • HEALING
    • Accepting vs Resisting
    • Anger
    • Anxiety
    • Blocks to Wellbeing
    • Cravings + Desires
    • Cue Controlled Relaxation
    • Forgiveness
    • Growth
    • Impermanence
    • Letting Go
    • Loneliness
    • Overwhelming Emotions
    • PERMA for Stress
    • Radical Acceptance
    • Skillfulness
    • Stress
    • Suffering
    • The Arrow
    • Thought Diffusion
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    • Freedom
    • Habits
    • Happiness
    • Intuition
    • Kindness
    • Mindful Consumption
    • Morning Mindfulness
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